I used to be obsessed with the Power Rangers. Not anymore. Nowadays, they’ve turned into wizards with wands and capes, and it’s Power Rangers and the Chamber of Secrets or whatever. But as a kid, that show was mighty.
I even had the bed sheets. The schoolyard boys would rant and rave about how hot the Pink Ranger was. Her name was Kimberly. They’d chant, “Kim’s sexy! Kim’s smoking!” I, on the other hand, was more partial to the Green Ranger.
So yeah, I guess I always knew I liked guys. But I didn’t know I was gay. I know that sounds contradictory, but what I mean is, ever since I was four, I had this vague sense of who I was, but before puberty, there was no real context for it.
It didn’t help that I’d turn on the TV and see religious authorities preaching about how gay people were a danger to society and kids. I’d think, “Well, that can’t be me. I can’t be gay. I’m just a kid myself, doing normal kid stuff.”
Growing up, I heard so many false, misleading, and downright mean things about who I was and what I was going to become just because of my sexual orientation—something I have absolutely no control over.
When I first went to college, I was incredibly nervous. I attended a religious university, and I was all like, “Oh snap, Jesuits.” But fortunately, I didn’t face a single problem. My high school was way worse. Back there, I once got called an abomination for having a sticker with a rainbow on it. You know, really dark stuff.
But at college, the environment was always positive. The staff were super supportive of diversity and celebrating what made everyone different. That’s probably the best advice I can give to others. If professionals and leaders are willing to look beyond society’s labels, why should you be afraid to do the same? No one is just athletic, just intelligent, just funny, just Latino, or just Jewish. Likewise, no one is just gay.
So embrace it all! Be your true Mighty Morphin’ self… cape and all.
They can pass whatever they want but states can nullify it.
This is a really good speech! *tears up* I can relate to a lot of the things you've said.
And I think that your new organisation is great ^_^
Dont so many religions or faiths, condemn gay people to carry a cross or some such thing. Not a physical cross, a metaphysiclal one…more bo**ocks.
Keep on keeping on, once again, love the layout of your blog…inspirational…
Well done on doing the monologue. I have never had a problem with someone being gay, I don't know why other people do. I wonder if you read Pierre la Roux's blog, Warfare, it is a very worthwhile read even for non-gay people like me.
One thing that I like most about gays is that they are "Gays"… not just by sexual orientation but also by the so-called state of emotion…being happy =)
I like their sense of humor, somewhat unique and really amusing…
Great Post! and Great Blog too! =)
Society is very quick to stick labels on individuals. Man! I wished I was there to see you perform. That would be so cool! Your monologue is simply awesome! Well said!
OMG. Monologues! :O I remember when I was in 3rd year Highschool and we were asked to give a monologue. I hated that part. It was so embarrassing! Urgh.
Anyway, your monologue is was better than mine. You do have a way with words. 🙂
I was a little scared when I first got to College too. :O I guess we are all reluctant to changes, but change is inevitable.
OMG! Like I told you earlier. I said I would read this, and I have. I LOVE IT! 🙂 Great job!
I agree with everything you say. I would have gone with the gree one just cuz green is my fav color. But my mom didn't let me watch that show as a child because it "was to violent". Hahahaha. Obv she let my sister watch it because OMG I get freaking beat up by here just because I did like ONE thing wrong. It's bad but I love her anyway! <3
I've got nothing against the homosexuals and bisexuals of the world. I would actually love to have friends that are homosexual or bi, just as well, as straight friends. 🙂 I'm going to visit a gay bar when I get old enough. I really want to meet some people, besides you, who are gay. 🙂 I can't wait! <3 WORLD PEACE! Lol. 🙂
I still think this is great. I like the way this is written!! I love you and am proud of you. Are you coming for dinner & a movie Friday? Love, Mom
Oh yah, 'The Rainbow'. That hardcore, gangsta, Natzie Germany stuff right there =]
Great monologue, you should tour it! Its so true that college is MUCH more open and understanding about things than in high school. It's all about liberation and all that jazz…
But did they really call the rainbow an abomination? Really? That's just so odd! If you come to Seattle right now we still have rainbow flags all over the city b/c of Pride Week. Guess my whole city is damned lol
That's a cool monologue. I think the gay-bashing has to be one of the biggest issues I have with the Christian church. Just like so many other things have been twisted out of context, I fear that homosexuality might be the 21st Century of out-of-context stupidity. And this is why I love college. Intelligence rules!
I wish I was there to applaud you. It was indeed a well-written speech that really got in to me. I don't think I've ever read something this good.
I'm in awe. The last paragraph really was the best part. Best ending ever.
that was an awesome speach, too bad it was short, I always like reading your stuff.
If only more people were open minded, really nice that they let you speak about that stuff. I guess you were very nervous. Hope to see your second monologue as well!
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